Some people claim
that the living in the present can actually cause more harm than good.
They say that in
order to lead a productive and profitable life, one must study both the
past and the
future, the present is only a stepping stone.
I think that this is quite the
opposite. The past must be learned from, the future
must be looked at, but the present is
where things
happen, where a person can make things happen.
In each persons time, he has the chance to make
a mark upon the world. Each
person can take
his life into his own hands and decide what to do with it, how to mold it.
These choices can
often be hard to make. Frequently one's
opinions and choices are
frowned upon by
the establishment and by the majority.
This must not let his faith and
hope falter, he
must strive to accept what he can not change, and change what he can not
accept.
The world we know blazes past us every
second. Our closest friends may soon
leave forever,
others may change, our old homes may be torn down to build a parking lot;
yet time still
marches on. I feel very strong that with
guidance from our past and hope for
our future we
must live each day to its fullest, make each day more valuable than the
previous. Life, love, and friendship are the most
precious things on this earth, it is very
important for
each to find his true love and friends, and live his life with them to its
fullest
potential.
The past is just that, the past. There is nothing you can do about it except
learn
from it. In the last year I have spent countless hours
contemplating what I could have
done different to
change the events that took place last October.
The death of Jen Elliott,
my friend, was
the hardest thing I have ever experience in my short life. I would have
given anything
and everything to go back and change those events, and I still would.
However, I have
learned that there is nothing I can truly do, except learn from her and
comfort her
family. What I learned from her is that
none of us know how long we will be
here. We have to live each day like it is our last,
because it may be.
The future, will always be the future. We have to set a goal as to what our futures
will be and
always keep that goal in sight. We
mustn't, though, let this goal take over our
life. There will always be a future and a goal
until the last minute. We have to take
what
we can now; be
with our friends and family and care for them.
The past and the future are guideposts,
beacons. They are not more. You can't
live in the past,
you can't get there. You can't live in
the future, you haven't reached it
yet. You must live in the present, or you haven't
lived at all.
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