Many adoptions are being taken place in America today. These adoptions are not always of the same race, transracial adoption is very popular among eager couples who are willing to adopt. Transracial adoption is the adoption of a child of one race by a couple of another race. Adopting children from different races has brought up many controversies and the government has had to step in. There are mixed views on the case of transracial adoption, some believe it is culturally damaging to the child while others believe there is nothing wrong with it. The primary goal of adoption officials must be to place the child into a home as quickly as possible which will, in turn, minimize the effects that it will have on the child , whether it be a white or black family that it is adopted by. There is nothing wrong with transracial adoption a child can be loved by anyone who is willing to love it because love is colorblind.
There are many minority children who are
without permanent homes in the United States, crossing the color bar is frowned
upon by many people.
The debate over
transracial adoption is whether or not it is in the best interest of the
child. The problem in today's society is
that foster care is preferred over transracial adoption. The reason being the children and youth
services would rather put a black child in foster homes of that race instead of
letting a white couple adopt it because they are white. They believe
that putting a black child in white family would culturally damage that
child, that they would grow up not knowing their heritage. They believe that a parent of a different
race is not as equipped to educate a child about issues of their racial
identity(McNair 1). They do not
realize putting a child through years of moving from foster home to foster home
would damage them because they would have no sense of family or love. Letting the white couple who are willing to
adopt the child would be in the best interest of the child because they would
give it a home, family and love.
Transracial
adoption has a long history with many controversies. Beginning in 1968, a law was passed
permitting families to adopt outside of their race. In 1972, an almost unknown
black nationalist group called the
National Association of Black Social Workers became famous when they spoke out
against the practice of transracial adoption.
They branded this type of practice was "cultural
genocide"(Republic 6). Even though
the law passed in 1968 was never changed, in only one year the number of
transracial adoptions was cut in half to 1,569.
By 1975, it had been drastically
cut down again to only 800 (6).
Another law regarding transracial adoption was passed in 1980 stating
that the Department of Health and Human Services is required to monitor
adoptable foster care children every six, twelve, and eighteen months. However this practice is never enforced(6).
We realize that the government has
recognized that this is problem and in 1994 President Clinton passed the
Multiethnic Placement Act(Multi 1).
The Multiethnic Placement Act(MEPA) was proposed by Senator Howard Metzenbaum, it was
designed for many reasons. For one is
was to prevent discrimination in the placement of children on the basis of
race, color of natural origin(Multi 1). It stated that any agency that uses
race as a factor in deciding adoptive placements would be denied federal
financing(Republic 6). The major goal of the act was to increase the
number of children adopted because too many children were waiting too
long. A recent study revealed that in a
three month period in New York City 262 children were legally adopted, out of
those more than fifty percent had lived in foster care for at least six
years(Christ 2). Many of those children
were held back from being adopted because of racial considerations. How can one hold a child for that long in
foster care when there are willing parents ready to adopt. Consider four couples who were willing to
adopt four black children who have spent time in the foster care system: one a
ten year old boy with severe learning disabilities, a two year old girl with
fetal alcohol system, a mildly retarded three year old boy with cerebral palsy
and a four year old boy who is one fourth black who was born drug affected and
was sexually abused. Each of the four
couples who were willing to adopt these children of their dreams were denied
adoption permission because they were white(Christ 1). It doesn't matter if the parents are of a
different race because studies have showed that children raised by parents of
different race have had normal culturally aware lives. Sandra Illionga, a black woman who was
adopted by a white family waited ten years before being adopted she states
"What were they doing during those ten years growing my ideal black family
from scratch"(Christ 2). So we see
these children who wait are put through a lot of stress from moving around to
foster homes. The government has realized
that there was a problem that is why they passed the MEPA act. MEPA will help by preventing discrimination
that can cause delays in or denial of adoptive placements due to race or color.
Today there is split opinion on the adoption of
children by a couple of a different race.
Many people are beginning to realize that color doesn't matter. There are many organizations out there that
support transracial adoption and are helping with adoptions whether they are
transracial or not. One organization
Americans for African Adoption was started and is also run by Cheryl
Shott. She herself is a mother of three
adopted African children. As of 1992 her
agency has placed eighteen children from Africa and one from Afghanistan with
white families in the United States(Vogue 12).
Along with these supportive agencies the communities and churches are
give their support to transracial adoption.
The younger generations are more
apt to be willing to adopt out of race because they are the younger generation,
they have experienced today's society where interracial couples are becoming
more frequent. Less support is seen
among the older generations than the younger ones.
The reason there are so many transracial
adoptions today is because of the abundance of white couples seeking to adopt
and their isn't enough white children for them to adopt. These couples are willing to adopt a child of
different race since the abundance of minority children up for adoption is
high. These white couples are seeking to adopt because of many reasons one
being that they could have a fertility problem.
Any couple in that situation would be grateful to adopt a child of a
different race it would not stop them from loving it any differently. About
half of the adoptable children in foster care are black(Republic 5). With not
enough black families showing interest in adopting these children are left
waiting for a family to adopt. Before
the Multiethnic Placement Act was passed these black children would wait for
however long it took for the adoption agency find them same race parents. Now after the act was passed these agencies
have to if there is no suitable family of the same race willing to adopt the
child allow the white couple to adopt.
Now we are back
to the real controversy involving transracial adoption: does transracial adoption culturally damage
the child? No. As a child of different race is adopted by a
white couple it is essential that the child explore his or her own heritage and
ethnic identity. There is a concern that
if a child is adopted out of his culture that they are going to lose their
cultural ties(Smith 1041). It is
important that the ethnic identity of the child be preserved and that the child
is able to develop an awareness of their heritage. Many of the children adopted by white couples
are proud of their racial and ethnic backgrounds, both the biological and the
cultural ones(St. John 152). In a study
done by Mcroy and Zurcher, black children raised by white adoptive parents have
the same high self esteem and good self concept as did a black child raised by
black adoptive parents(Pohl 49). Self
esteem is an important aspect for a child that is raised in a transracial
family, and the studies all have shown that a child raised in a transracial
family adjust as well as those adopted by a family of the same race.
The black children that are raised by white
families on the majority has stated that they have a normal life and that their
family has brought them up teaching them about their cultural background. One student responded to this by saying that
her parents made a conscious effort not only to point out people of color who
made positive role models, but also to help her be open to all cultures(St.
John 152). A study done by American
University concluded after analyzing 240 white families who adopted black
children that it does not emotionally hurt the child to be adopted by a white
family. They found that these black
children who had were given white and black dolls did not think of the white
dolls as any smarter, prettier or nicer than the black ones(Republic 7). Many children through a time of exploring
their heritage and they get the best of both worlds. These adopted children
believe that race is an unimportant factor.
In one study the parents reported that racial identity is not a major
problem with their children(Grow 234).
Most of the children adopted transracially say that they would not have preferred to have been adopted by
parents of the same racial background(Jackson 35). It also appears that they are more accepting
of integration and mixed race marriages.
Some people do not like transracial adoption
and won't stand for it but it happens to be that white families are more apt to
adopt older and disabled black children then to be adopted by a black
family(Republic 8). Black couples don't
appear to come forth as much as white couples in the interest of adoption(Vogue
32). When black couples don't show as
much interest in adopting there still is the same amount of black children up
for adoption out there. These children
have the right to have a family, they need love. If a white family is willing to adopt them
and give them love and life then no one should prevent that from happening
because the studies show that these children do not suffer anything that they
wouldn't suffer from be adopted by a family of their race.
From compelling
this paper I have discovered an enormous quantity of information concerning the
practice of transracial adoption and its effects on the adopted children and
the adopting families. Prior to writing
this paper and doing the research I had the impression that transracial
adoptions should not be a problem as long as the child was brought up in loving
and caring environment. As long as the
child was raised correctly there should not have been any problems with the
psychological welfare of the child. Now
that I have finished researching this topic I feel even more strongly towards
how transracial adoptions will not harm the child in any way, be it physically,
psychologcally, or socially. In most
cases the child feels that they are much happier in a different race family
then in a family of their race. Most
transracially adopted children feel that they are getting the best of both
worlds and that they would not want it any other way. If the children see it an advantage to have
inroads into both communities, then how can anyone say that this is detrimental
to the child? As long as the child is
happy and comfortable with their adopted family, then it should not matter what
the color of their skin is. Too many
people in today's society base their opinions on race and color. That should not be the case considering that
race is not important to the children that are adopted. A human being is a human being no matter what
color they are. Everybody is the same
inside and everybody has the same feelings.
The only difference in the two individuals is their skin color. Granted, adoption agencies should try to find
an acceptable black family in which to place a black child, but when one is not
available their should be no problem with placing the child in a transracial
home. The family structure, ability to
support the child, environment, and chemistry between the adopted child and the
family should be more important that the skin colors of the child and family. If an acceptable black family is not available,
it would be more detrimental to the child to be kept in a foster care system
than to be adopted by a white family. They child would then get a feeling of
not being loved or accepted by anyone.
Feelings that they were not "good enough" would arise inside
of them because they think that they are not wanted by anyone. There would be absolutely no love in their
lives. This will give rise to deep
feelings of inferiority which will never go away once they are begun. These few results of long lengths of time are
more disastrous to the child's mental health than a transracial adoption would
ever be. It is close to impossible to relieve the foster
children of these horrible feelings.
Many will live with the feelings acquired during foster care for the
remainder of their lives, however all of them will live with the memory of how
it felt to be unwanted and unloved.
Transracial
adoptions are becoming more and more frequently seen throughout the United
States today. Society is left with a
choice between the adoption of children of a different race or letting these
children grow up without the security of a family of their own. As long as the family offers its undying love
and support to the child, there should be no question as to whether or not that
family is allowed to adopt the child of different race. Transracial adoption is the better
alternative to long periods of time in foster care. Everyone should be given the chance to see
that, as trite it may sound, love really is colorblind.
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